Finding Value

Everything in life has value. Even the darkest of actions of hate and revenge have value. You just have to be open enough and aware of your emotions, feelings and thoughts to see that value. And if you aren’t aware enough, you will never see that value, the bigger picture, and so choose anger, hate

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The Meaning of Fishes

There comes a point in everyone’s life where something that was exceedingly opaque becomes exceedingly transparent, its meaning becoming blindingly obvious. It was as though I had metaphorically stuffed a Babel Fish into my ear and listened to a translation of a long held proverb into another language, a language I actually understood; the language

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Seeking Attention

Any illness we experience is there to add weight and substance to our journey through life. We experience illness for one of two reasons. The first is that is allows us time to reflect, time to rest, and time to discover the epicentre within which is giving rise to our experience. You see, illness is

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In Relation to Others

What are people in our lives’ for? We live in relationships. Relationships with family, friends, work colleagues, neighbours etc. Many of our relationships are good ones but some challenge in ways that, on first glance, seem to be useless and pointless and just create difficulties in our lives. It is these bad relationships that provide

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Breaking The Shell

Over many years, and probably decades, we build a crust around us, a wall that stops people invading our space. Eventually, the wall we have built begins to hinder our progress in life, hindering the communication with others that is vital if we are to begin dismantling this barrier. Chicken and egg you say! Well,

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